"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Benching with DBs = pvssy? (want advice)

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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digitalrat

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Whether you're using DB or BB, it will build muscle. DB will hit different muscles in the chest then the BB, same thing with the BB. I do BB, DB and a bench press machine. Not all on the same day, but I switch them around during the week. They will all hit the muscle in a different way and make it stronger and harder.
 

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BB does not hit muscles that DB doesn't, but DB hits some the BB doesn't. DB is the better muscle and functional strength builder hands down.
 
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