"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bench Pressing Solo

Celadus

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I workout alone and very early in the morning. No one else is in the gym. I generally use dumb bells for bench press and I have trouble with the initial lift off. I hold the weights, and fall backwards but the weight gets stuck on me, but if I start from an extended position everything goes fine.

Any suggestions on techniques to get the weight above me starting out?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Bat

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Can you lift them from the floor WHILE you're laying flat on the bench? Put the dumbbell at arms extended length on the floor and then just lift it up without bending your elbows.

This is a strange scenario. I don't understand how you're having trouble with initial lift-off yet are able to, I'm assuming, complete multiple reps with full range of motion. Either your range of motion is not full or you must need to work on pecs/shoulders. I'm taking a shot in the dark here so bear with me.

Oh, can't you ask the gym attendant/front-desk person to spot you?
 

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I think its because of my body mechanics. I have long arms. A lot of reputable trainers like John Berardi suggest changing up the range of motion based on how you're built.

I might try a few extra warm up sets and see if that helps.

The attendant that time of morning is an 18 year old girl.
 

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I don't understand the problem.

When I'm doing a dumbbell press, I pick up the weights, sit down and let the dumbbells lay on each thigh, by the knee. When I'm ready to go, I lean back, and kick my knees up(one at a time) and bam the weights are up in the air.
 

Flyer

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Like Shyyhs said, position with the dumbells on your knees, roll back whilst keeping that seated position, effectively kicking them up.

I used to do this, until it got ridiculous where i needed to basically deadlift the DB off the floor.. Then I switched to Barbell presses.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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