"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bench Pressing Solo

Celadus

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I workout alone and very early in the morning. No one else is in the gym. I generally use dumb bells for bench press and I have trouble with the initial lift off. I hold the weights, and fall backwards but the weight gets stuck on me, but if I start from an extended position everything goes fine.

Any suggestions on techniques to get the weight above me starting out?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Bat

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Can you lift them from the floor WHILE you're laying flat on the bench? Put the dumbbell at arms extended length on the floor and then just lift it up without bending your elbows.

This is a strange scenario. I don't understand how you're having trouble with initial lift-off yet are able to, I'm assuming, complete multiple reps with full range of motion. Either your range of motion is not full or you must need to work on pecs/shoulders. I'm taking a shot in the dark here so bear with me.

Oh, can't you ask the gym attendant/front-desk person to spot you?
 

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I think its because of my body mechanics. I have long arms. A lot of reputable trainers like John Berardi suggest changing up the range of motion based on how you're built.

I might try a few extra warm up sets and see if that helps.

The attendant that time of morning is an 18 year old girl.
 

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I don't understand the problem.

When I'm doing a dumbbell press, I pick up the weights, sit down and let the dumbbells lay on each thigh, by the knee. When I'm ready to go, I lean back, and kick my knees up(one at a time) and bam the weights are up in the air.
 

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Like Shyyhs said, position with the dumbells on your knees, roll back whilst keeping that seated position, effectively kicking them up.

I used to do this, until it got ridiculous where i needed to basically deadlift the DB off the floor.. Then I switched to Barbell presses.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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