Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonGorgon said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I said "environmental stimuli" NOT "DNA stimuli"enthusiast said:
DNA, Environmental stimuli, and subconsciousness are three different things.DonGorgon said:
False..! since all your mental existence or energy is made of simple electronic pulses going across neurons.. Mental illness can stem from genetic or external issues...enthusiast said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ok well if you gonna get emotional like a woman then we can end the conversation now....enthusiast said:
DonGorgon said:
That may work for initial motivation on approach, but it's definitely NOT what gets you laid (unless you are a rapist). In the real world she does have to like you too. Seduction is a two-way street. All the desire and chasing in the world will lead nowhere if you are a creepy guy with the wrong mindset.
If by "total self belief" you mean false or ego-based confidence, then yeah I'd have to agreeenthusiast said:
The key word in that sentence is acting. Confidence is not an act, or something you wear as a disguise. Authentic confidence comes from being in tune with your needs and who you are as a person. I wrote a post about this ages ago.
This just confirms to me that we actually agree more than I thought. Sometimes folks here argue over semantics, like what "belief" or "confidence" really means without really coming to a mutual realization, and that's just a waste of energy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
except money..tick37 said:
Well money tends to get you in o their warm wet spots and we seldom want more than that right?tick37 said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
