"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Example you believe that the patriots will win. A hundred thousand people believe that the patriots will win. The patriots also believe in themselves that they are going to win. Did their belief make a difference when the giants beat them. HELL NO...they won solely base on execution.

THE GIANTS BEAT THE PATRIOTS BECAUSE THEY JUST DID.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ah yes but most women make sure you seldom know the truth of the situation, which increases uncertainty and lack of confidence in many males and the only solution is to not care but you cant do that if you really like her...LOL

Thats why we call you GEEKS


So you are saying just have confidence, but no confidence in yourself. No? So I see, believing what is out there.

Im saying you shouldnt even think about believing in yourself. Because in a logical stand point its stupid. its not going to make a difference if you dont know the situation.

The truth tends to be as rare as unicorns most of the time...

Only because you have a lot of junk in your mind.
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No, I agree you should know the situation. Lets say you have to tie your shoes. The situation: tie your shoes. So you can't tie your shoes if you don't know that is the situation. On the other hand if you don't believe you are cabable of being able to tie your shoes...you can't...why? Because you already made the decision by not believing in yourself, to not tie your shoes. So you don't even bother to take the risk.

Like approaching girls...you don't even believe in yourself? Then you have already made the decision to not do it. Even if you know the situation at hand.
 
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Example you believe that the patriots will win. A hundred thousand people believe that the patriots will win. The patriots also believe in themselves that they are going to win. Did their belief make a difference when the giants beat them. HELL NO

THE GIANTS BEAT THE PATRIOTS BECAUSE THEY JUST DID.
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Tom Brady and the patriots didn't know the situation and they didn't believe in themselves enough.
 
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If you believe you cant get a girl but then you go out and get a girl you will still get a girl. Beliefs are worthless if its the wrong belief. One of the worthless believe is believing in yourself. Like I said it will only get your head big, eyes blind and killed in combat.

You will only get a girl if you go out and get a girl. Beliefs are almost worthless if you dont know the situation. And no one wants to bet on something that is worthless but geeks do it. THE NATURAL DONT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The moment you stop believing in yourself is the moment where you swear your life to celibacy.
 
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Like I said...

It is both...believing in yourself and knowing the situation...

Think about it if you don't know the truth that you are cabable of approaching the female? How can you?

It is like not even knowing yourself.
 
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It is both...believing in yourself and knowing the situation...

Think about it if you don't know the truth that you are cabable of approaching the female? How can you?

It is like not even knowing yourself.
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yeh anyone can walk up to a girl and talk but they guys who fail alot will be more afraid of being rejected again... cause that is the truth of their reality...
 
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Tom Brady and the patriots didn't know the situation and they didn't believe in themselves enough.
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If I have a gun and shoot you in the head point blank and you die. It has nothing to do with beliefs. But it has everything to do with knowing what a bullet will do when fire from a gun.

Lets say a little kid from a poor family is hungry. He believes that his dad will get food for him and hes dad did get him the food. The little kid's belief that has dad will get him the food has nothing to do with the belief of him actually getting the food. Hes dad got him the food because his dad got him the food. Not because he believes it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wow these trolls get everywhere.

Oh, and 100% belief will get you laid.
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No, 100% truth. 100% belief is the maximum belief you are cabable of.
 
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Wow these trolls get everywhere.

Oh, and 100% belief will get you laid.
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Getting laid will get you laid not your belief. Just go out and get laid make you life simple.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

The dorks of this world
 
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If I have a gun and shoot you in the head point blank and you die. It has nothing to do with beliefs. But it has everything to do with knowing what a bullet will do when fire from a gun.
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But what if the gun back fires and shoot you in the head and you die... The real reality is that you thought you knew what the bullet and gun would do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Believe in yourself or not.

The truth is if you want to get laid and you go out to get laid you get laid.
 
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But what if the gun back fires and shoot you in the head and you die... The real reality is that you thought you knew what the bullet and gun would do.
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Believing in yourself still doesnt have anything to do with a bullet going the wrong way.
 
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Not saying you don't know how to get laid?

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You can all be as negative as you like, it doesn't change fact. Every time I've had sex, it's because I knew I was going to get it, knew I deserved it, and fully knew - not pretended or bull****ted - but knew I was doing her a favour.

You can argue til you're blue in the face because your ego depends on it, ubt it doesn't change fact.
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Just saying, that you are misunderstanding the point.
 
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You can all be as negative as you like, it doesn't change fact. Every time I've had sex, it's because I knew I was going to get it, knew I deserved it, and fully knew - not pretended or bull****ted - but knew I was doing her a favour.

You can argue til you're blue in the face because your ego depends on it, ubt it doesn't change fact.
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Ah yes the optimist...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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