"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Believing in yourself will not get you laid.

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It will never will!
What will get you laid is under standing the situation and going out and get laid.
Its a matter of taking it.

Believing in yourself is not the quick fix.
No such thing. The situation is either favorable or not.

If anything money is the closest thing to a quick fix.

What you guys need to realize is her body is enough motivation to get her in your bed. You like her and you want to sleep with her is the only true motivation in getting the girl. You dont sleep with a girl because your confident, you dont sleep with a girl because you feel good and you feel that you can get her to like you. You sleep with her because you want her and you want to **** her.


YOU LIKE HER > YOU MAKE YOUR MOVE>

GETTING A GIRL DOESNT REQUIRE A BELIEF.

I'M TRYING TO FREE YOU GUYS FROM NONSENSE BUT YOU GUYS CALL ME A FOOL. A GUY CAN GET LAID WITHOUT KNOW A SINGLE PHILOSOPHY, HAVE A SINGLE BELIEVE. THE ONLY MOTIVATION FOR YOU GETTING A GIRL SHOULD ONLY BE BECAUSE YOU LIKE HER.



SELF BELIEF AND BELIEVING THE TRUTH IS TWO DIFFERENT THINGS AND UNRELATED.

Confidence is knowing the truth of the situation its never about believing in yourself(believing in yourself sound like a quote from a fairy tale. Watch a single episode of disney channel and you will know what I mean.). Self confidence or believing in yourself will only get your head big, eyes blind, and killed in combat. Believing in yourself will not win you the battle its beating the enemy that will give you the victory. A belief cannot not effect the outcome that is ment to happen. If you are ment to die no matter how much you believe in yourself you will still going to die on time and on schedule.

Life has nothing to do in believing yourself. Though it has everything to do with believing the truth you know.

Its knowing the truth about women. How they really are, what really attract them, what makes makes them like a guy.

Believing in yourself has nothing to do with getting them to like. They like you because they like you not because you believe in yourself. You get her in your bed because you want her.

Action is the command of the soul hence you need a soul to command action. A belief is just an estimation of what will happen next a guess. You can believe in yourself all you want but if you dont have the soul to command your action you will not move you still wont know what to do next. People Have Souls And Thats Why We Are All Different And Look Different. You Don't Have A Soul If You Copy From Other People. You Mimic Their Game To Get The Girl. Its Stupid Because The Girl Doesnt Know If She Likes The Real You. The Real You Will Eventually Come Out Hence A Chance She'll Divorce You.

Believing in yourself is vain thinking. Its not going to make a difference when you do your best.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Actually believing in yourself is critical for almost everything you do in life but its not the full equation.

It is belief in yourself plus acting on those beliefs so it is both.
 

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enthusiast said:
It will never will!
What will get you laid is under standing the situation and going out and get laid.

Believing in yourself is not the quick fix.
No such thing.

I see your point, I think understanding the situation is important, but if you don't believe in yourself, you could miss the situation...
 

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Well believing in yourself is another term for "self confidence" which usualy comes from a certain amount of success.

If you fail very often you will have a hard time believing in yourself.

Optimists are good at positive self motivation regardless of external negative stimuli.

Pessimists are bad at positive self motivation regardless of external positive. stimuli.

And Realists accept are bound by the effects of external forces be they positive or negative.
 

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KontrollerX said:
Actually believing in yourself is critical for almost everything you do in life but its not the full equation.

It is belief in yourself plus acting on those beliefs so it is both.

Believing in yourself to get laid is like trying to win the lottery you got to have the right belief(number) to win. And to understand the right belief you have to understand the truth. Or you believe the truth not yourself.

Believing in yourself is not going to make a difference its believing the truth. You sound like someone who works for disney. haha
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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enthusiast said:
Believing in yourself to get laid is like trying to win the lottery you got to have the right belief(number) to win. And to understand the right belief you have to understand the truth. Or you believe the truth not yourself.

Believing in yourself is not going to make a difference its believing the truth. You sound like someone who works for disney. haha
^^you sound like a realist...
 

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Believing in yourself is believing the truth. At least that is how I see it.
 

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You're missing the point.

Belief in yourself creates the driving force that makes you improve yourself both gamewise and physically so that you become an irresistable chick magnet.

There is nothing "disney" at all about what I said.

Only truth.
 

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some people live a lie... what then???
It is just being sure of your cabablities. No one can see the truth 100%. If you doubt yourself...you won't go for it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonGorgon said:
Well believing in yourself is another term for "self confidence" which usual comes from a certain amount of success.

If you fail very often you will have a hard time believing in yourself.

Optimists are good at positive self motivation regardless of external negative stimuli.

Pessimists are bad at positive self motivation regardless of external positive. stimuli.

And Realists accept are bound by the effects of external forces be they positive or negative.

Confidence is knowing the truth of the situation its never about believing in yourself(believing in yourself sound like a quote from a fairy tale). Self confidence or believing in yourself will only get your head big, eyes blind, and killed in combat.
 

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Overconfidence

Is going too far...Underconfidence is not going far enough
 

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Life has nothing to do in believing yourself. Though it has everything to do with believing the truth.
 

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enthusiast said:
Confidence is knowing the truth of the situation...
Ah yes but most women make sure you seldom know the truth of the situation, which increases uncertainty and lack of confidence in many males and the only solution is to not care but you cant do that if you really like her...LOL
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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enthusiast said:
Confidence is knowing the truth of the situation its never about believing in yourself(believing in yourself sound like a quote from a fairy tale). Self confidence or believing in yourself will only get your head big, eyes blind, and killed in combat.
So you are saying just have confidence, but no confidence in yourself. No? So I see, believing what is out there.
 

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You're missing the point.

Belief in yourself creates the driving force that makes you improve yourself both gamewise and physically so that you become an irresistable chick magnet.

There is nothing "disney" at all about what I said.

Only truth.

Wrong... its knowing the truth about women. How they really are, what really attract them, what makes makes them like a guy.

Believing in yourself has nothing to do with getting them to like. They like you because they like you not because you believe in yourself. Thats what we call blind confidence. Your blindly believing in yourself.
 

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Ah yes but most women make sure you seldom know the truth of the situation, which increases uncertainty and lack of confidence in many males and the only solution is to not care but you cant do that if you really like her...LOL

Thats why we call you GEEKS


So you are saying just have confidence, but no confidence in yourself. No? So I see, believing what is out there.


Im saying you shouldnt even think about believing in yourself. Because in a logical stand point its stupid. its not going to make a difference if you dont know the situation.

The truth tends to be as rare as unicorns most of the time...

Only because you have a lot of junk in your mind.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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