Your-so-vain
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Just wondering if anyone goes out in Beirut?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I heard the lights go out quite a bit...Just wondering if anyone goes out in Beirut?
I heard the lights go out in @taiyuu_otoko's head whenever he tries to think.I heard the lights go out quite a bit...
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
@Zimbabwe has considered nothing. He is full of hot air. Aahhahahahaahhahaha!!!I've considered going there to find a quality girl for marriage, Lebanese girls are some of the best looking in the world.
Smaller even.@DoubleBarrel is your weiner that small bro?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Funny how you went from singing my praises to being my biggest hater on the forum. A man who whimsically switches his allegiances is a man who cannot be trusted with anything.That's God's punishment for being schizo and thinking you are the new messiah. @DoubleBarrel is another Canadian nutcase.
But about the Messiah bit. Nah, man. My Religion looks at the Individual as the Messiah. It is up to us individually to work out our own Salvation ... and you have a long way to go, currently being a victim of your own Jealousy and Self-Righteousness.About the thread: Lebanese women are very hot, feminine but also shallow and materialistic unparalleled by anything you can find in Europe.
They are the Eastern Europeans of the middle east. I've also been looking into Morrocan and Tunisian girls, not as hot but they definitely seem a lot less materialistic on average.About the thread: Lebanese women are very hot, feminine but also shallow and materialistic unparalleled by anything you can find in Europe.
Yeh man I agree. I just got back from Tunisia. The North African girls are smoking hot. I think the hottest in the world imo. They are literally a mix of everything.You have no idea what you are talking about
Spent a lot of time last year with my back then morrocan gf , and people there are very materialistic on average
They have nice culture and so on , but for sure you can not say that they are not materialistic
Actually , usually the poorer a country is , the more materialistic women are
The west from a sex life perspective is the best place to be , as you can sleep with women spending little to no money . Try to do that in Morocco or Tunisia.
What is great about this eastern beauties is that they do not like simps , so I do not see them anytime soon a heaven for sexpats and simps
Iranian women are gorgeous too
Bro , as a summary , if you do not do decent in your own country … very unlikely to do way better in other places
If you do not speak French in Morocco … then you are f8cked
Remember that its a Muslim country. Morroco is semi conservative and Tunisia is a little more liberal ( for muslim standards ). The girls have lower body counts than western girls ( casual sex is rare). This is good. The bad is that you will have to support them financially 100%.They are the Eastern Europeans of the middle east. I've also been looking into Morrocan and Tunisian girls, not as hot but they definitely seem a lot less materialistic on average.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.