Your-so-vain
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Just wondering if anyone goes out in Beirut?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I heard the lights go out quite a bit...Just wondering if anyone goes out in Beirut?
I heard the lights go out in @taiyuu_otoko's head whenever he tries to think.I heard the lights go out quite a bit...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
@Zimbabwe has considered nothing. He is full of hot air. Aahhahahahaahhahaha!!!I've considered going there to find a quality girl for marriage, Lebanese girls are some of the best looking in the world.
Smaller even.@DoubleBarrel is your weiner that small bro?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Funny how you went from singing my praises to being my biggest hater on the forum. A man who whimsically switches his allegiances is a man who cannot be trusted with anything.That's God's punishment for being schizo and thinking you are the new messiah. @DoubleBarrel is another Canadian nutcase.
But about the Messiah bit. Nah, man. My Religion looks at the Individual as the Messiah. It is up to us individually to work out our own Salvation ... and you have a long way to go, currently being a victim of your own Jealousy and Self-Righteousness.About the thread: Lebanese women are very hot, feminine but also shallow and materialistic unparalleled by anything you can find in Europe.
They are the Eastern Europeans of the middle east. I've also been looking into Morrocan and Tunisian girls, not as hot but they definitely seem a lot less materialistic on average.About the thread: Lebanese women are very hot, feminine but also shallow and materialistic unparalleled by anything you can find in Europe.
Yeh man I agree. I just got back from Tunisia. The North African girls are smoking hot. I think the hottest in the world imo. They are literally a mix of everything.You have no idea what you are talking about
Spent a lot of time last year with my back then morrocan gf , and people there are very materialistic on average
They have nice culture and so on , but for sure you can not say that they are not materialistic
Actually , usually the poorer a country is , the more materialistic women are
The west from a sex life perspective is the best place to be , as you can sleep with women spending little to no money . Try to do that in Morocco or Tunisia.
What is great about this eastern beauties is that they do not like simps , so I do not see them anytime soon a heaven for sexpats and simps
Iranian women are gorgeous too
Bro , as a summary , if you do not do decent in your own country … very unlikely to do way better in other places
If you do not speak French in Morocco … then you are f8cked
Remember that its a Muslim country. Morroco is semi conservative and Tunisia is a little more liberal ( for muslim standards ). The girls have lower body counts than western girls ( casual sex is rare). This is good. The bad is that you will have to support them financially 100%.They are the Eastern Europeans of the middle east. I've also been looking into Morrocan and Tunisian girls, not as hot but they definitely seem a lot less materialistic on average.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.