"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Being unpredictable...
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Don't plan things too far in advance and be impulsive.
There are many of ideas that others can share with you but the only way to become unpredictable is through your own revelations.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Lied to a girl
made a joke
teased a girl
chumped another guy
Yelled to scare a girl
There are more... If you want a concise breakdown of predictability do a few searches and make a good attention grabbing response to this thread. I can almost guaranteee you somebody will read it and say wow....
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
Difficult to foretell or foresee
Basically do anything that isn't normal/boring.
Go streaking
fly a kit made out of lead
act like a cartoon/lunatic
walk up to and kiss a girl w/o saying anything else
be nice then be an a**
damn have you lost your imagination or what?
:crackup:
woops I missed something
That would be predictable.......
Just do the opposite of whatever you think of first.
:rock:
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Change any little thing up, don't make her say to her self "okay, now we're probably going to the movies again".....
Egoist
Master Don Juan
basically, don't be a one-sided dude. If you are a joker, have moments of depth. If you are a quiet guy, go crazy and have fun sometimes.
Do things people wouldn't expect you to do. Be spontaneous. Take her to have ice cream when it snows. Take a preppy white girl to a best friend chicken shack in the ghetto. Put on a tango and dance with her out of nowhere when you are just chilling at your house.
Its good for you as well. When you are too set in your own ways, you become stagnant as well. When you are constantly trying things in new ways, it makes you a better person as well.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.