"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Being unpredictable...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don't plan things too far in advance and be impulsive.
There are many of ideas that others can share with you but the only way to become unpredictable is through your own revelations.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Lied to a girl
made a joke
teased a girl
chumped another guy
Yelled to scare a girl
There are more... If you want a concise breakdown of predictability do a few searches and make a good attention grabbing response to this thread. I can almost guaranteee you somebody will read it and say wow....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
Difficult to foretell or foresee
Basically do anything that isn't normal/boring.
Go streaking
fly a kit made out of lead
act like a cartoon/lunatic
walk up to and kiss a girl w/o saying anything else
be nice then be an a**
damn have you lost your imagination or what?
:crackup:
woops I missed something
That would be predictable.......
Just do the opposite of whatever you think of first.
:rock:
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
Change any little thing up, don't make her say to her self "okay, now we're probably going to the movies again".....
Egoist
Master Don Juan
basically, don't be a one-sided dude. If you are a joker, have moments of depth. If you are a quiet guy, go crazy and have fun sometimes.
Do things people wouldn't expect you to do. Be spontaneous. Take her to have ice cream when it snows. Take a preppy white girl to a best friend chicken shack in the ghetto. Put on a tango and dance with her out of nowhere when you are just chilling at your house.
Its good for you as well. When you are too set in your own ways, you become stagnant as well. When you are constantly trying things in new ways, it makes you a better person as well.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.