Being too smooth

[Fash]

There is something which has been hampering my game the past few weeks...

I come across as too smooth.

This kinda hit home when a chick last night said:

"i'm sure you are very successful with women, but you are too smooth, and a woman who knows what she is doing will see it a mile away"

I still number-closed her and kissed her goodbye, but it got me thinking...

If a girl thinks I'm too smooth and am too good and efficient of making her attracted to me, her b!tch shield will just thicken. It will make my work harder.

There has been so many occasions where I have been caught out! They say things like "mmmm I cant trust you, you seem like too much of a player/smooth operator"

I have had women say "you remind me of Hitch!" and I even had this chick say to me "you're doing NLP on me! I can't believe it!"

My questions is.... does anyone else experience this? Of so, how did you overcome it?

Should I act AFC just so that I dont come across as too smooth????

 

[tosh]

yeah, start acting AFC. 24/7/365

 

[tosh]

I see you are in London. Are you sarging tonight? need a wingman!??

 

[Tomatoes]

I dont think you can get away from it Fash. Just say things like "im confiedent about who i am thats all" or your a "People Person"

I am guessing to be fair mate as I can tell from your FR that you are very smooth and very good.

Dont act afc. Just try and work round it.

As if you dont get enough women anyways

 

[Fash]

Originally posted by tosh
I see you are in London. Are you sarging tonight? need a wingman!??

I'm actually in New York this week. So I'll be sarging here tonight. Hopefully, I'll have a couple of good stuff to include in an FR 2moro.

 

[Phat]

Dont change man lol.. ur doing fine.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Originally posted by Fash
There is something which has been hampering my game the past few weeks...

I come across as too smooth.

This kinda hit home when a chick last night said:

"i'm sure you are very successful with women, but you are too smooth, and a woman who knows what she is doing will see it a mile away"

I still number-closed her and kissed her goodbye, but it got me thinking...

If a girl thinks I'm too smooth and am too good and efficient of making her attracted to me, her b!tch shield will just thicken. It will make my work harder.

There has been so many occasions where I have been caught out! They say things like "mmmm I cant trust you, you seem like too much of a player/smooth operator"

I have had women say "you remind me of Hitch!" and I even had this chick say to me "you're doing NLP on me! I can't believe it!"

My questions is.... does anyone else experience this? Of so, how did you overcome it?

Should I act AFC just so that I dont come across as too smooth????

So what **** 'em. They all say that "You're a Player!,You're a Player,man you gotta lot of girls"..****outta here.They still end up ****ing us ..so don't ease up.

 

[reyalp]

i've been called a "natural flirt" more times than i can count.

i just say "only for you, hun" or something like that

 

[ethnomethodologist]

LOL, she gave it to you negatively... and you think that's a good thing?

You had to have been too boring, you came off as a freaking robot dude.

I'd give you advice, but than I'd sound AFC.

Just do some ****y and try to make it funny, that's what almost everybody else is going to say.

Come-on KBJ's unite!

 

[TedJustAdmitIt]

Fash...hop on over to Masf and take a look in the Advanced section at a thread by RazorJack titled "Perceived Image Vs. Projected Image"...it was a couple of weeks ago and real long but I seem to remember someone else asking a similar question and getting some good replies.

In fact I suggest anyone who wants to know anything about picking up women read ALL of RZJ's posts cos his stuff is spot on...simple,no B.S. and straight to the point...natural game.