"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being too flashy, Trying too hard?

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I notice when I go to clubs when I am dressed up in like black pants/blazer and a collared shirt I dont get too many responses from women

But when I wear jeans and a collared shirt just hanging, More women talk to me

Does dressing up too nice make women think you are "trying too hard" to impress them? or does dressing up make you look too old/boring/mature (im 28)?

Maybe a club isnt where I should be scouting, im really trying to attract the "classy" type of girl, not the jeans and halter types

It almost seems like its a waste of time to even get dressed up anymore, because it seems women like the "just rolled out of bed" look
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It could be that when you're wearing black pants/blazer and a collared shirt that you look too "player"?

And the jeans and a collared shirt is much more casual of course.
 
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On the flip side...

I "peacock" fashionably. It draws unbelieveable attention for ME. It is NOT for everyone. It will only help you open. The rest is up to you and your game.
 
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