"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Being too flashy, Trying too hard?

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I notice when I go to clubs when I am dressed up in like black pants/blazer and a collared shirt I dont get too many responses from women

But when I wear jeans and a collared shirt just hanging, More women talk to me

Does dressing up too nice make women think you are "trying too hard" to impress them? or does dressing up make you look too old/boring/mature (im 28)?

Maybe a club isnt where I should be scouting, im really trying to attract the "classy" type of girl, not the jeans and halter types

It almost seems like its a waste of time to even get dressed up anymore, because it seems women like the "just rolled out of bed" look
 

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It could be that when you're wearing black pants/blazer and a collared shirt that you look too "player"?

And the jeans and a collared shirt is much more casual of course.
 
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On the flip side...

I "peacock" fashionably. It draws unbelieveable attention for ME. It is NOT for everyone. It will only help you open. The rest is up to you and your game.
 
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