"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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being too available?

conan2120

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Hi everyone,I have a question about a comment that keeps being brought to my attention.People keep telling me that I,m too nice and too available.I,m trying to figure out what that means and looking for ways or ideas to change that.Can you help?Thank you.:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Golden Arms

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what do you think it means ? being too availabe means you devote or are willing to devote too much of your time to one woman. The cause of that is usually not having other options (women) on your plate and/or just not having enough other things to keep you occupied

Have you checked out the DJ Bible yet ?
 

WaterTiger

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Much of your problem can be solved with one simple word...NO!

"Conan! Bring your truck over and help me move this weekend."
NO!

"Conan, these flowers are okay, but I really like those $25 dollar orchids. Buy me one!"
NO!

"Conan! Dude! I'm short on cash, pick up a case of beer for me!"
NO!

"Nice" guys let everyone walk all over them, let their girlfriends run their lives & never say a word about it. The instructions to being the captain of your own destiny is found in the DJ Bible.

You don't have to be an ass about it, but saying "NO" now and then will make people respect you a little more.
 

conan2120

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Thanks for the replies guys,without you or this forum,I,d probably keep making these same mistakes over and over again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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