“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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being too available?

conan2120

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Hi everyone,I have a question about a comment that keeps being brought to my attention.People keep telling me that I,m too nice and too available.I,m trying to figure out what that means and looking for ways or ideas to change that.Can you help?Thank you.:confused:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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what do you think it means ? being too availabe means you devote or are willing to devote too much of your time to one woman. The cause of that is usually not having other options (women) on your plate and/or just not having enough other things to keep you occupied

Have you checked out the DJ Bible yet ?
 

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Much of your problem can be solved with one simple word...NO!

"Conan! Bring your truck over and help me move this weekend."
NO!

"Conan, these flowers are okay, but I really like those $25 dollar orchids. Buy me one!"
NO!

"Conan! Dude! I'm short on cash, pick up a case of beer for me!"
NO!

"Nice" guys let everyone walk all over them, let their girlfriends run their lives & never say a word about it. The instructions to being the captain of your own destiny is found in the DJ Bible.

You don't have to be an ass about it, but saying "NO" now and then will make people respect you a little more.
 

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Thanks for the replies guys,without you or this forum,I,d probably keep making these same mistakes over and over again.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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