"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being SICK on a DATE

CORVETTE06

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Last week I hung out with this chick even though I couldn't hear out of my left ear. I had an ear infection where there was fluid stuck in my left ear, and I cannot hear out of it. I told her that the night before I went to a club and the music was very loud, and I temporarily lost my hearing in my left ear.

Now it is a week later, and I am hanging out with her again tomorrow. My ear problem is still the same. I CANNOT hear out of my left ear. Also, I sound congested when I talk because I have a sinus infection.

What Do I DO? This is her first weekend in college. If i don't hang out with her this weekend, she will meet new guys and forget about me and I am done!

-Corvette06
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DJDamage

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CORVETTE06 said:
What Do I DO? This is her first weekend in college. If i don't hang out with her this weekend, she will meet new guys and forget about me and I am done!
Or you can look at it this way: If you do hang out with her, you might look like an ass trying to scream at her that you can't hear from your left ear and then it will really give her a reason to look for new guys lol

This chick will meet new guys regardless if you and her go out on a date together so it really doesn't matter either way. If you are comfortable going on a date with an ear infection then go, if not then cancel it and say you are still sick and maybe you will get another date with her another time. If you don't get that date again then there are plenty of other chicks walking around you can ask and should ask.
 

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dude, that is a good chance for you...so when you are with her, misinterpret her words in a C&F way.. you are gonna rock the nite..
 

CORVETTE06

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now i woke up and my right ear is clogged too. now i can barely hear out of both ears. what should i do? it is going to be like this for a couple of weeks....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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