Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Being SICK on a DATE

CORVETTE06

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Last week I hung out with this chick even though I couldn't hear out of my left ear. I had an ear infection where there was fluid stuck in my left ear, and I cannot hear out of it. I told her that the night before I went to a club and the music was very loud, and I temporarily lost my hearing in my left ear.

Now it is a week later, and I am hanging out with her again tomorrow. My ear problem is still the same. I CANNOT hear out of my left ear. Also, I sound congested when I talk because I have a sinus infection.

What Do I DO? This is her first weekend in college. If i don't hang out with her this weekend, she will meet new guys and forget about me and I am done!

-Corvette06
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJDamage

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CORVETTE06 said:
What Do I DO? This is her first weekend in college. If i don't hang out with her this weekend, she will meet new guys and forget about me and I am done!
Or you can look at it this way: If you do hang out with her, you might look like an ass trying to scream at her that you can't hear from your left ear and then it will really give her a reason to look for new guys lol

This chick will meet new guys regardless if you and her go out on a date together so it really doesn't matter either way. If you are comfortable going on a date with an ear infection then go, if not then cancel it and say you are still sick and maybe you will get another date with her another time. If you don't get that date again then there are plenty of other chicks walking around you can ask and should ask.
 

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dude, that is a good chance for you...so when you are with her, misinterpret her words in a C&F way.. you are gonna rock the nite..
 

CORVETTE06

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now i woke up and my right ear is clogged too. now i can barely hear out of both ears. what should i do? it is going to be like this for a couple of weeks....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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