"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Being SICK on a DATE

CORVETTE06

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Last week I hung out with this chick even though I couldn't hear out of my left ear. I had an ear infection where there was fluid stuck in my left ear, and I cannot hear out of it. I told her that the night before I went to a club and the music was very loud, and I temporarily lost my hearing in my left ear.

Now it is a week later, and I am hanging out with her again tomorrow. My ear problem is still the same. I CANNOT hear out of my left ear. Also, I sound congested when I talk because I have a sinus infection.

What Do I DO? This is her first weekend in college. If i don't hang out with her this weekend, she will meet new guys and forget about me and I am done!

-Corvette06
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJDamage

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CORVETTE06 said:
What Do I DO? This is her first weekend in college. If i don't hang out with her this weekend, she will meet new guys and forget about me and I am done!
Or you can look at it this way: If you do hang out with her, you might look like an ass trying to scream at her that you can't hear from your left ear and then it will really give her a reason to look for new guys lol

This chick will meet new guys regardless if you and her go out on a date together so it really doesn't matter either way. If you are comfortable going on a date with an ear infection then go, if not then cancel it and say you are still sick and maybe you will get another date with her another time. If you don't get that date again then there are plenty of other chicks walking around you can ask and should ask.
 

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dude, that is a good chance for you...so when you are with her, misinterpret her words in a C&F way.. you are gonna rock the nite..
 

CORVETTE06

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now i woke up and my right ear is clogged too. now i can barely hear out of both ears. what should i do? it is going to be like this for a couple of weeks....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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