"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being SICK on a DATE

CORVETTE06

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Last week I hung out with this chick even though I couldn't hear out of my left ear. I had an ear infection where there was fluid stuck in my left ear, and I cannot hear out of it. I told her that the night before I went to a club and the music was very loud, and I temporarily lost my hearing in my left ear.

Now it is a week later, and I am hanging out with her again tomorrow. My ear problem is still the same. I CANNOT hear out of my left ear. Also, I sound congested when I talk because I have a sinus infection.

What Do I DO? This is her first weekend in college. If i don't hang out with her this weekend, she will meet new guys and forget about me and I am done!

-Corvette06
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DJDamage

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CORVETTE06 said:
What Do I DO? This is her first weekend in college. If i don't hang out with her this weekend, she will meet new guys and forget about me and I am done!
Or you can look at it this way: If you do hang out with her, you might look like an ass trying to scream at her that you can't hear from your left ear and then it will really give her a reason to look for new guys lol

This chick will meet new guys regardless if you and her go out on a date together so it really doesn't matter either way. If you are comfortable going on a date with an ear infection then go, if not then cancel it and say you are still sick and maybe you will get another date with her another time. If you don't get that date again then there are plenty of other chicks walking around you can ask and should ask.
 

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dude, that is a good chance for you...so when you are with her, misinterpret her words in a C&F way.. you are gonna rock the nite..
 

CORVETTE06

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now i woke up and my right ear is clogged too. now i can barely hear out of both ears. what should i do? it is going to be like this for a couple of weeks....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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