"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being Sexual

phooey73

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The Deacon said:
Kino does not equal sexuality.

If you want to see some good examples of sexuality, rent Meet Joe Black and watch Brad Pitt. Sexuality is more than just touching someone on the shoulder... it's the smile, the eyes, the tone of voice, gahh, far too complicated to just read about. The only way you really develop a good sexuality is by getting more comfortable with your own sexuality. If you're not comfortable with your sexuality, you'll have problems touching anyone, ESPECIALLY a girl that you like.

Gunwitch Method is probably the only method that mostly focuses on conveying sexuality. Mystery Method focuses mostly on social value. Juggler Method focuses mostly on being genuine.

I'd suggest reading some Gunwitch on www.bristollair.com so you can get a clearer idea of sexuality.
Agreed; this is exactly why I posted. Does Gunwitch talk specifically about this? Or is there another article/post that does?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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http://www.bristollair.com/methods/gunwitch/gunwitch-method---part-1.html

Gunwitch describes the "sexual state" in more detail than all of the other PUAs, and he focuses on it much more. If you read the entire volume, it'll give you an idea of what actions to do when around a women you're attracted to. While some PUAs advocate NOT showing the fact you're attracted to the girl until a little later, Gunwitch basically wants you to make it obvious on a subliminal level that you want sex from the get-go (albeit in a tasteful way, not in a sex-crazed rapist way). He'll give you some awesome techniques like "triangular gazing" which means you look at her left eye, her right eye, and her lips over and over again.

The basic idea of Gunwitch is this: women want sex as much as we do.
 
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