Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Being Sexual

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The Deacon said:
Kino does not equal sexuality.

If you want to see some good examples of sexuality, rent Meet Joe Black and watch Brad Pitt. Sexuality is more than just touching someone on the shoulder... it's the smile, the eyes, the tone of voice, gahh, far too complicated to just read about. The only way you really develop a good sexuality is by getting more comfortable with your own sexuality. If you're not comfortable with your sexuality, you'll have problems touching anyone, ESPECIALLY a girl that you like.

Gunwitch Method is probably the only method that mostly focuses on conveying sexuality. Mystery Method focuses mostly on social value. Juggler Method focuses mostly on being genuine.

I'd suggest reading some Gunwitch on www.bristollair.com so you can get a clearer idea of sexuality.
Agreed; this is exactly why I posted. Does Gunwitch talk specifically about this? Or is there another article/post that does?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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http://www.bristollair.com/methods/gunwitch/gunwitch-method---part-1.html

Gunwitch describes the "sexual state" in more detail than all of the other PUAs, and he focuses on it much more. If you read the entire volume, it'll give you an idea of what actions to do when around a women you're attracted to. While some PUAs advocate NOT showing the fact you're attracted to the girl until a little later, Gunwitch basically wants you to make it obvious on a subliminal level that you want sex from the get-go (albeit in a tasteful way, not in a sex-crazed rapist way). He'll give you some awesome techniques like "triangular gazing" which means you look at her left eye, her right eye, and her lips over and over again.

The basic idea of Gunwitch is this: women want sex as much as we do.
 
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