"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being Sexual

phooey73

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The Deacon said:
Kino does not equal sexuality.

If you want to see some good examples of sexuality, rent Meet Joe Black and watch Brad Pitt. Sexuality is more than just touching someone on the shoulder... it's the smile, the eyes, the tone of voice, gahh, far too complicated to just read about. The only way you really develop a good sexuality is by getting more comfortable with your own sexuality. If you're not comfortable with your sexuality, you'll have problems touching anyone, ESPECIALLY a girl that you like.

Gunwitch Method is probably the only method that mostly focuses on conveying sexuality. Mystery Method focuses mostly on social value. Juggler Method focuses mostly on being genuine.

I'd suggest reading some Gunwitch on www.bristollair.com so you can get a clearer idea of sexuality.
Agreed; this is exactly why I posted. Does Gunwitch talk specifically about this? Or is there another article/post that does?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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http://www.bristollair.com/methods/gunwitch/gunwitch-method---part-1.html

Gunwitch describes the "sexual state" in more detail than all of the other PUAs, and he focuses on it much more. If you read the entire volume, it'll give you an idea of what actions to do when around a women you're attracted to. While some PUAs advocate NOT showing the fact you're attracted to the girl until a little later, Gunwitch basically wants you to make it obvious on a subliminal level that you want sex from the get-go (albeit in a tasteful way, not in a sex-crazed rapist way). He'll give you some awesome techniques like "triangular gazing" which means you look at her left eye, her right eye, and her lips over and over again.

The basic idea of Gunwitch is this: women want sex as much as we do.
 
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