"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being set up?

kegger

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Ok, I saw this girl at the skating rink and didn't get a chance to meet her but I did some research and she is the best friend of my neighbor. Now my neighbor is planning on coming to the skating rink with the one I like. Now this is to hook us up. I just need some hints to help with this. What should be said, done, ect. Remember my dad, his fiance, and my neighbors parents are going to be there. Tomorrow is family night. I just want any incouraging words and hints you may have for me.:confused:
P.S. This girl is like a 9, just thought you might want to know
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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dont do it because you will fcuk up, just kidding man! On a serious note what you should do is remember that you know your neighbour a lot better then you know her, do not make the mistake of giving her all or even half the attention, because it will make you come off as desprate. Talk to her, flirt with her, even come away with her number but make sure that you give most of your attention to your neighbour.
 

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K, thnx for the help. Anybody else before I must leave.
 
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