"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Being set up?

kegger

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Ok, I saw this girl at the skating rink and didn't get a chance to meet her but I did some research and she is the best friend of my neighbor. Now my neighbor is planning on coming to the skating rink with the one I like. Now this is to hook us up. I just need some hints to help with this. What should be said, done, ect. Remember my dad, his fiance, and my neighbors parents are going to be there. Tomorrow is family night. I just want any incouraging words and hints you may have for me.:confused:
P.S. This girl is like a 9, just thought you might want to know
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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dont do it because you will fcuk up, just kidding man! On a serious note what you should do is remember that you know your neighbour a lot better then you know her, do not make the mistake of giving her all or even half the attention, because it will make you come off as desprate. Talk to her, flirt with her, even come away with her number but make sure that you give most of your attention to your neighbour.
 

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K, thnx for the help. Anybody else before I must leave.
 
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