"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Being set up?

kegger

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Ok, I saw this girl at the skating rink and didn't get a chance to meet her but I did some research and she is the best friend of my neighbor. Now my neighbor is planning on coming to the skating rink with the one I like. Now this is to hook us up. I just need some hints to help with this. What should be said, done, ect. Remember my dad, his fiance, and my neighbors parents are going to be there. Tomorrow is family night. I just want any incouraging words and hints you may have for me.:confused:
P.S. This girl is like a 9, just thought you might want to know
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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dont do it because you will fcuk up, just kidding man! On a serious note what you should do is remember that you know your neighbour a lot better then you know her, do not make the mistake of giving her all or even half the attention, because it will make you come off as desprate. Talk to her, flirt with her, even come away with her number but make sure that you give most of your attention to your neighbour.
 

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K, thnx for the help. Anybody else before I must leave.
 
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