"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being seen with escorts

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Anyone hired a super hot escort just as arm candy? I'm in a new city and I I go to several pretty swinging events a month. I'm aquainted with a lot of peeps at these places, but I have never showed up with a date. Pretty sure that being seen with a SHB once or twice would do wonders for my SMV. Whenever I have shown up with a hot girlfriend anywhere in the past it was like being touched by the hand of god. Women are herd creatures after all.

I wonder how much practice if any you have to do with the escort first to pull it off smoothly.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It sounds like an interesting sub-8 tier, and even very intriguing sub-5 tier idea. You should just do it and let us know how that goes. When you look for advice with such things, people tend to talk you out of it.
 

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by swinging you mean the swing thing or is another slang?


anyway, I read from another forum once, of a dude who did hire a pretty cute and hot escort as his arm candy during a company event, since the girl was ok in looks and did the play right he didn't had much problems and hell he says there was a girl he wanted to date in his place she never wanted, till she saw him with her and then she started to amke it easy for him later. he also make use of her later anyway

thing is if you are that desperate, and the girl is not famous, like shoving her face over the internet or well know in your city it can work, but like I said its pretty desperate, and its not like rich playboys don't do this anyway
 

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Kevin Samuels told a story about how he took an escort to a company event. While at the event one of the senior execs (whom was also a client of the same escort) greeted him in the men's restroom and said "That Tiffany really is something isn't she?".

I believe "Tiffany" was her escort alias, and this was the exec's way of signaling to Kevin Samuels that he also was one of her clients.

Later on, that exec became a mentor and a benefactor which help KS advance his career. He mentioned to KS that "any man whose wise enough to bring 'Tiffany' to an event shows that he can recognize good character and good judgment".

The exec was referring to the fact that "Tiffany" understood the importance of discretion and privacy.

I'm not sure if this story was even true. But in my own personal life, I've been around wealthy men whom have attended events with dates that I definitely suspected were escorts - these women were simply out of their league and age range.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Like most things written on the internet, probably not.
In all honesty, I think that story was BS, because I seem to recall seeing a similar situation in a movie (but I just can't recall which movie)...

That story is just too much of a stretch, and KS always did strike me as a snake oil salesman. He had good content, though.
 
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Unless you get a really discreet outcall college student financing her education, a pro is gonna look like a pro.

TBH in the case of some company event, you are probably better off finding some young secretary in your company who wants to climb the ladder.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is what Andrew Tate and Dan Bilzarian do, fraud status with escorts.

It's beyond pathetic
I am a big fan of Tate and Tate defender.

I could be wrong, but I've followed Tate's channel petty closely, and I don't think he hires escorts or needs to to be with hot women. He is in his prime now.

Tate made his money through girls web cam site and now owns casinos. He had a number of girls that I'm sure he just smashes that were his employees.

Also, its not unimaginable that a wealthy, young guy (I believe Tate is 37), former professional kickboxer would have his share of hot women.
I can't comment on Blizerian because I dont know.
 

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I am a big fan of Tate and Tate defender.

I could be wrong, but I've followed Tate's channel petty closely, and I don't think he hires escorts or needs to to be with hot women. He is in his prime now.

Tate made his money through girls web cam site and now owns casinos. He had a number of girls that I'm sure he just smashes that were his employees.

Also, its not unimaginable that a wealthy, young guy (I believe Tate is 37), former professional kickboxer would have his share of hot women.
I can't comment on Blizerian because I dont know.
Can you share his website or YouTube channel?
 

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If you find yourself needing arm candy for an event, it's better just to skip the event. It's possible to skip Super Bowl parties in the friend group (often dominated by couples) or the workplace holiday party.
 

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If you find yourself needing arm candy for an event, it's better just to skip the event. It's possible to skip Super Bowl parties in the friend group (often dominated by couples) or the workplace holiday party.
Why? That is the opportunities he has to be seen with a hot girl. People will remember that. Just like me on facebook. May get a handful of likes with the best posts. The minute I have a hot girl in a photo that is into me, that will break the page with likes.

Women might be nicer to him in the office. He is normal as he can get a girl to save his life. People will see he is normal and a hot girl could like him. How can that not be anything but a great idea?
 

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Why? That is the opportunities he has to be seen with a hot girl. People will remember that. Just like me on facebook. May get a handful of likes with the best posts. The minute I have a hot girl in a photo that is into me, that will break the page with likes.

Women might be nicer to him in the office. He is normal as he can get a girl to save his life. People will see he is normal and a hot girl could like him. How can that not be anything but a great idea?
It's a fake and he could get exposed for that. You need to be real and get a real attractive woman to like you. By not showing up, you build intrigue.

Also, fewer people are physically in offices anymore so that matters even less than ever. It's not that like that actually mattered 5-20 years ago either.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's a fake and he could get exposed for that. You need to be real and get a real attractive woman to like you. By not showing up, you build intrigue.

Also, fewer people are physically in offices anymore so that matters even less than ever. It's not that like that actually mattered 5-20 years ago either.
Being NEVER seen with a girl does not build intrigue. It means women dont like you. I can say my image is sterile as nobody can ever associate me with being with any woman (after the divorce). That does not build any intigue with me and I get the OP wants to break his sterile image.
 
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Whenever I have shown up with a hot girlfriend anywhere in the past it was like being touched by the hand of god. Women are herd creatures after all.
So you are not an incel if you recently had a hot gf? How hard is it for you to get another one? Make sure this is really a last resort experiment.
 

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So you are not an incel if you recently had a hot gf? How hard is it for you to get another one? Make sure this is really a last resort experiment.
If people see you have no social skill in your everyday life, then you show up with a hot girl, they will know it's a pro. BELIEVE ME.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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