"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being Proactive in this Messed Up Situation

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I ended things with my GF recently. It was not a mutual break up. I grew tired of being accused of things that I'm not doing that I decided this most recent time would be the last time. She was at my place when it happened and she about lost her mind, even assaulted me. I had to grab her to restrain her and threatened to call the cops on her (2nd time) for refusing to leave. She eventually left and one would think that's the end of it. No. She is now texting me non stop and I've chosen to stop responding since they're emotional texts and I know she's just trying to get back with me. Now that I've started ignoring her, she messaged me that I hurt her and that she's considering doing something about it. She's come off as emotionally unstable and I'm afraid if I keep ignoring her, she could potentially do something. I never thought things would come to this but I'm wondering if I should contact legal authorities on her before she tries something against me. As I said, I'm not entirely innocent since I did put my hands on her however I did not strike her. She however struck me. But we all know how the court system heavily favors women and in Texas you don't even need proof.

Any advice is welcome.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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stringpuller said:
We gave them the right to vote and now as the acient Roman General said. We are fcked.
She can hit you all she wants but don't you dare.
Lol you should feal ashamed for wanting to punch her lights out...
You should take her back immediately!!! :rofl::lol:
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Damn. I guess I'll be more specific next time lol
 
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jaymbrs said:
As I said, I'm not entirely innocent since I did put my hands on her however I did not strike her. She however struck me. But we all know how the court system heavily favors women and in Texas you don't even need proof.

Any advice is welcome.
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Save all your text messages and if you do have to engage with her over text, talk about and get her to admit that you didn't do anything to her except break up with her and hurt her emotionally. At least you'll have records over text then as some ammunition in case she tries anything.
 
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Lookatu said:
Save all your text messages and if you do have to engage with her over text, talk about and get her to admit that you didn't do anything to her except break up with her and hurt her emotionally. At least you'll have records over text then as some ammunition in case she tries anything.
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Good info. I still have her blocked from everything including email because yes she went that route. I think I have "enough" since she emailed me to "talk" minutes after the incident. I don't think anyone with a brain would think someone who was just beat up would try and contact that person to talk shortly after. But what do I know. Either way I'm saving a lot of these.
 
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stringpuller said:
If you think a woman beat you up you are already behind the 8 ball.
You are officially the poorer version of Johnny depp getting his azz handed to him. "Im the victim"

Do yourself a huge favor and avoid these situations altogether or at least learn how too.
This girl don't gaf about you. Shes nexted you with a potential court order.
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You misread. She's claiming I bruised her up but yet is calling me shortly after our encounter. I don't care if she hit me. I'm not looking to press charges however if she's claiming I hurt her, maybe I should.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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stringpuller said:
Jaymbrs your relationships shouldn't be this toxic. The only bruising that shoukd be going on is the bruises she shows to her friends complaining you are too rough in pound town.
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i agree bro. This hadn't happened before. Which is why I'm finally cutting this off.
 
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Double down on your purpose and path in life.

Women must fall in line or kindly **** off. I put said types on ICE. DISREGARD. AS IN, ***** IS DEAD TO ME.

They 1. Fall in line or 2. Fall off a cliff. Either way, #nextSet!

You can't MIND your BIZ playing drama with some soon yo be 30+ skank but going on the maturity of a 16 Yr old brat.

Block + delete.

Go get baeees. She'll take a hint.

I put a few on ICE during pandemic. Several ****ed off kindly. Another walked around crying lmfao.

Put bitches in check.

She falls in line or falls out of rotation. PERIOD!

Act accordingly.

Her **** fit is attempting to set things off. Wants drama. She is a waste of time when you can be learning a language, building your startup or learning to code.
 
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stringpuller said:
If you think a woman beat you up you are already behind the 8 ball.
You are officially the poorer version of Johnny depp getting his azz handed to him. "Im the victim"

Do yourself a huge favor and avoid these situations altogether or at least learn how too.
This girl don't gaf about you. Shes nexted you with a potential court order.
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+1

Too much THIS!

I swear, what some deem as DJ or red pill awareness is getting cucked and prancing through women's hoops.

As String stated OP, ^

Avoid ****ery altogether.

She's either with the program or gtfo
 
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