"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being Proactive in this Messed Up Situation

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I ended things with my GF recently. It was not a mutual break up. I grew tired of being accused of things that I'm not doing that I decided this most recent time would be the last time. She was at my place when it happened and she about lost her mind, even assaulted me. I had to grab her to restrain her and threatened to call the cops on her (2nd time) for refusing to leave. She eventually left and one would think that's the end of it. No. She is now texting me non stop and I've chosen to stop responding since they're emotional texts and I know she's just trying to get back with me. Now that I've started ignoring her, she messaged me that I hurt her and that she's considering doing something about it. She's come off as emotionally unstable and I'm afraid if I keep ignoring her, she could potentially do something. I never thought things would come to this but I'm wondering if I should contact legal authorities on her before she tries something against me. As I said, I'm not entirely innocent since I did put my hands on her however I did not strike her. She however struck me. But we all know how the court system heavily favors women and in Texas you don't even need proof.

Any advice is welcome.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stringpuller said:
We gave them the right to vote and now as the acient Roman General said. We are fcked.
She can hit you all she wants but don't you dare.
Lol you should feal ashamed for wanting to punch her lights out...
You should take her back immediately!!! :rofl::lol:
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Damn. I guess I'll be more specific next time lol
 
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jaymbrs said:
As I said, I'm not entirely innocent since I did put my hands on her however I did not strike her. She however struck me. But we all know how the court system heavily favors women and in Texas you don't even need proof.

Any advice is welcome.
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Save all your text messages and if you do have to engage with her over text, talk about and get her to admit that you didn't do anything to her except break up with her and hurt her emotionally. At least you'll have records over text then as some ammunition in case she tries anything.
 
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Lookatu said:
Save all your text messages and if you do have to engage with her over text, talk about and get her to admit that you didn't do anything to her except break up with her and hurt her emotionally. At least you'll have records over text then as some ammunition in case she tries anything.
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Good info. I still have her blocked from everything including email because yes she went that route. I think I have "enough" since she emailed me to "talk" minutes after the incident. I don't think anyone with a brain would think someone who was just beat up would try and contact that person to talk shortly after. But what do I know. Either way I'm saving a lot of these.
 
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stringpuller said:
If you think a woman beat you up you are already behind the 8 ball.
You are officially the poorer version of Johnny depp getting his azz handed to him. "Im the victim"

Do yourself a huge favor and avoid these situations altogether or at least learn how too.
This girl don't gaf about you. Shes nexted you with a potential court order.
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You misread. She's claiming I bruised her up but yet is calling me shortly after our encounter. I don't care if she hit me. I'm not looking to press charges however if she's claiming I hurt her, maybe I should.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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stringpuller said:
Jaymbrs your relationships shouldn't be this toxic. The only bruising that shoukd be going on is the bruises she shows to her friends complaining you are too rough in pound town.
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i agree bro. This hadn't happened before. Which is why I'm finally cutting this off.
 
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Double down on your purpose and path in life.

Women must fall in line or kindly **** off. I put said types on ICE. DISREGARD. AS IN, ***** IS DEAD TO ME.

They 1. Fall in line or 2. Fall off a cliff. Either way, #nextSet!

You can't MIND your BIZ playing drama with some soon yo be 30+ skank but going on the maturity of a 16 Yr old brat.

Block + delete.

Go get baeees. She'll take a hint.

I put a few on ICE during pandemic. Several ****ed off kindly. Another walked around crying lmfao.

Put bitches in check.

She falls in line or falls out of rotation. PERIOD!

Act accordingly.

Her **** fit is attempting to set things off. Wants drama. She is a waste of time when you can be learning a language, building your startup or learning to code.
 
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stringpuller said:
If you think a woman beat you up you are already behind the 8 ball.
You are officially the poorer version of Johnny depp getting his azz handed to him. "Im the victim"

Do yourself a huge favor and avoid these situations altogether or at least learn how too.
This girl don't gaf about you. Shes nexted you with a potential court order.
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+1

Too much THIS!

I swear, what some deem as DJ or red pill awareness is getting cucked and prancing through women's hoops.

As String stated OP, ^

Avoid ****ery altogether.

She's either with the program or gtfo
 
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