Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Being Negative !! A New Kick Ass Technique

ALPHAROMEO

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you know by now i am into scripted convos ( if you ve been kind enough to read my dribble
i now also use the NEGATIVITY technique to dramatize the convo and make it last longer

yesterday this woman was explaining to me how to get to this difficult destination
i said " this is quite a long way away i d love to go by bus but apparently they ARE ON STRIKE ( they were on strike at all )

later on
I DON T HAVE A BUS TIME SCHEDULE I VE BOUND TO GET LOST

I AM STARVING I D LOVE TO EAT CANDY FLOSS SOMEBODY TOLD ME YOU CAN T FIND COTTON CANDY FLOSS AROUND HERE


i hope you get idea guys it works great and it s fun to do
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kingsam

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its not that negative IMO... BUT you need to be carefull wiht negativity...negative people can alienate others... you wont make people feel good being in your presence... so wont associate you wil fun etc. and so wont wanna be around you...NOT good!

making peole feel good when with you is MUCH better

the bus line - just kinda makes you look WRONG and stupid
bus timetable- you look stupid... MEN are good at finding theyr way around!
candy floss - your only saying you cant get CF ... nothing else!
 

Mistic

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Alpha, because English is your second language, I think what you are explaining and what we are reading are two different things. Maybe you could try to explain a little better.
 
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