"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Being Negative !! A New Kick Ass Technique

ALPHAROMEO

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you know by now i am into scripted convos ( if you ve been kind enough to read my dribble
i now also use the NEGATIVITY technique to dramatize the convo and make it last longer

yesterday this woman was explaining to me how to get to this difficult destination
i said " this is quite a long way away i d love to go by bus but apparently they ARE ON STRIKE ( they were on strike at all )

later on
I DON T HAVE A BUS TIME SCHEDULE I VE BOUND TO GET LOST

I AM STARVING I D LOVE TO EAT CANDY FLOSS SOMEBODY TOLD ME YOU CAN T FIND COTTON CANDY FLOSS AROUND HERE


i hope you get idea guys it works great and it s fun to do
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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kingsam

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its not that negative IMO... BUT you need to be carefull wiht negativity...negative people can alienate others... you wont make people feel good being in your presence... so wont associate you wil fun etc. and so wont wanna be around you...NOT good!

making peole feel good when with you is MUCH better

the bus line - just kinda makes you look WRONG and stupid
bus timetable- you look stupid... MEN are good at finding theyr way around!
candy floss - your only saying you cant get CF ... nothing else!
 

Mistic

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Alpha, because English is your second language, I think what you are explaining and what we are reading are two different things. Maybe you could try to explain a little better.
 
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