"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being Negative !! A New Kick Ass Technique

ALPHAROMEO

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you know by now i am into scripted convos ( if you ve been kind enough to read my dribble
i now also use the NEGATIVITY technique to dramatize the convo and make it last longer

yesterday this woman was explaining to me how to get to this difficult destination
i said " this is quite a long way away i d love to go by bus but apparently they ARE ON STRIKE ( they were on strike at all )

later on
I DON T HAVE A BUS TIME SCHEDULE I VE BOUND TO GET LOST

I AM STARVING I D LOVE TO EAT CANDY FLOSS SOMEBODY TOLD ME YOU CAN T FIND COTTON CANDY FLOSS AROUND HERE


i hope you get idea guys it works great and it s fun to do
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kingsam

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its not that negative IMO... BUT you need to be carefull wiht negativity...negative people can alienate others... you wont make people feel good being in your presence... so wont associate you wil fun etc. and so wont wanna be around you...NOT good!

making peole feel good when with you is MUCH better

the bus line - just kinda makes you look WRONG and stupid
bus timetable- you look stupid... MEN are good at finding theyr way around!
candy floss - your only saying you cant get CF ... nothing else!
 

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Alpha, because English is your second language, I think what you are explaining and what we are reading are two different things. Maybe you could try to explain a little better.
 
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