"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Being Lost

animal crackers

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Hey guys,

I've been having some problems down at college. I have a hard time making friends. I go out with some guys, and am pledging at a fraternity at the time, but I dont really have any "friends." Nobody really calls to ask to go out. I dont know what i'm missing.

I've been this way almost my entire life, but i've always had at least some friends. Now it seems that I'm just not some1 people care if they hang out with or not.

I don't know what to do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^_^

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I myself have that problem...started hanging out with people at work and I'm a bit happier now.

But if you're pleding to a frat...you have to be around other guys. just ask them to hang out or something...hang out around the house and get to know people. You have a big brother or other people in the pledge class you talk to dont you?
 

bossdog

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i had the same problem. Say this **** to yourself.

I dont care
I am the man


I gotta question for you. how many friends have you tried to make. People are attracted to uneedy people. Kinda a catch 22. You gotta have friends for other people to really wanna hang wit you.

Drop me a line. [email protected]
 

AFCinBC

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Wana be popular... a few key ingreedients
First- Buy a lot of beer (just once or twice)
Second- Invite every group of hb's you see to a party at your house
Third- Be cool.
 
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