"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Being introduced to her friends....
- Thread starter Soprano
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GlennCoCo
Don Juan
Just be friendly. Introduce yourself and game the friend in a more subtle non-flirty way. Have fun with them also.
I disagree, if your girl is attracted to you she won't give a **** what her friends think. It might help a bit but don't try to view it as make-or-break.GlennCoCo said:Meeting and impressing best friend(s) of the girl will make you or break you. The girl will drop you like a fat **** if her friends say, "he's weird" or "he's kinda creepy".
GlennCoCo said:Meeting and impressing best friend(s) of the girl will make you or break you. The girl will drop you like a fat **** if her friends say, "he's weird" or "he's kinda creepy".
Just be friendly. Introduce yourself and game the friend in a more subtle non-flirty way. Have fun with them also.
true works both ways aswell there was a girl i was really into and she was the same i kept talking about her to a friend.
then we saw her and i was talking o her my friend mutters that she seems weird and she aint all that i basically cut it dead.
only to find out that this friend done this with every girl i ever met basically he was a hater.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You're a chick?londonzen said:true works both ways aswell there was a girl i was really into and she was the same i kept talking about her to a friend.
then we saw her and i was talking o her my friend mutters that she seems weird and she aint all that i basically cut it dead.
only to find out that this friend done this with every girl i ever met basically he was a hater.
You're sure acting like one. Letting your friends make your decisions for you... ugh.londonzen said:nope
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
On top of that, im typically stand-offish and a d!ckhead when they try to talk to me...
i don't think it hurts my game with them... this girl just told me yesturday that her sister always talks sh!t about me being a loser, ugly, womanizer, and how she's disappointed in her for falling for my "games"... blah blah... i said, "i don't date your s!utty sister so she doesn't have to like me."... then we fvcked!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.