"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Being introduced to her friends....
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
GlennCoCo
Don Juan
Just be friendly. Introduce yourself and game the friend in a more subtle non-flirty way. Have fun with them also.
I disagree, if your girl is attracted to you she won't give a **** what her friends think. It might help a bit but don't try to view it as make-or-break.GlennCoCo said:Meeting and impressing best friend(s) of the girl will make you or break you. The girl will drop you like a fat **** if her friends say, "he's weird" or "he's kinda creepy".
GlennCoCo said:Meeting and impressing best friend(s) of the girl will make you or break you. The girl will drop you like a fat **** if her friends say, "he's weird" or "he's kinda creepy".
Just be friendly. Introduce yourself and game the friend in a more subtle non-flirty way. Have fun with them also.
true works both ways aswell there was a girl i was really into and she was the same i kept talking about her to a friend.
then we saw her and i was talking o her my friend mutters that she seems weird and she aint all that i basically cut it dead.
only to find out that this friend done this with every girl i ever met basically he was a hater.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You're a chick?londonzen said:true works both ways aswell there was a girl i was really into and she was the same i kept talking about her to a friend.
then we saw her and i was talking o her my friend mutters that she seems weird and she aint all that i basically cut it dead.
only to find out that this friend done this with every girl i ever met basically he was a hater.
You're sure acting like one. Letting your friends make your decisions for you... ugh.londonzen said:nope
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
On top of that, im typically stand-offish and a d!ckhead when they try to talk to me...
i don't think it hurts my game with them... this girl just told me yesturday that her sister always talks sh!t about me being a loser, ugly, womanizer, and how she's disappointed in her for falling for my "games"... blah blah... i said, "i don't date your s!utty sister so she doesn't have to like me."... then we fvcked!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.