"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being introduced to her friends....

Soprano

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I've always found these situations akward where a girl you are dating is introducing you to her best friend(s)...anyone have any tips for those situations? or things that you do to help break the ice?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Meeting and impressing best friend(s) of the girl will make you or break you. The girl will drop you like a fat **** if her friends say, "he's weird" or "he's kinda creepy".

Just be friendly. Introduce yourself and game the friend in a more subtle non-flirty way. Have fun with them also.
 

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GlennCoCo said:
Meeting and impressing best friend(s) of the girl will make you or break you. The girl will drop you like a fat **** if her friends say, "he's weird" or "he's kinda creepy".
I disagree, if your girl is attracted to you she won't give a **** what her friends think. It might help a bit but don't try to view it as make-or-break.
 

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Also, you don't have to be good friends with her friends or try to find contrived common ground. Much like her parents, you want to get along but have a reasonable distance between you and them.
 

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GlennCoCo said:
Meeting and impressing best friend(s) of the girl will make you or break you. The girl will drop you like a fat **** if her friends say, "he's weird" or "he's kinda creepy".

Just be friendly. Introduce yourself and game the friend in a more subtle non-flirty way. Have fun with them also.

true works both ways aswell there was a girl i was really into and she was the same i kept talking about her to a friend.
then we saw her and i was talking o her my friend mutters that she seems weird and she aint all that i basically cut it dead.
only to find out that this friend done this with every girl i ever met basically he was a hater.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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londonzen said:
true works both ways aswell there was a girl i was really into and she was the same i kept talking about her to a friend.
then we saw her and i was talking o her my friend mutters that she seems weird and she aint all that i basically cut it dead.
only to find out that this friend done this with every girl i ever met basically he was a hater.
You're a chick?
 

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im sure as fvck not liked by any of the friends/family of the girls i "date"... mostly because of the context of our relationships (MLTRs) to which they see me as the cause of them not being able to settle down...

On top of that, im typically stand-offish and a d!ckhead when they try to talk to me...

i don't think it hurts my game with them... this girl just told me yesturday that her sister always talks sh!t about me being a loser, ugly, womanizer, and how she's disappointed in her for falling for my "games"... blah blah... i said, "i don't date your s!utty sister so she doesn't have to like me."... then we fvcked!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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