"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Being in a porno?

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Maybe, this would be better off in the Anything else forum.

But, my girlfriend works at a porn store as a cashier. Last week she had a meeting with the owners who live out of state. They were talking about new ideas for the store and how they could make more money. Anyways, one of the girls she works with asked her if me and my girlfriend wanted to make a porno and sell it at their store. Other people have been asked this besides us also. So, I'm thinking; would it be worth it? Should I wear a mask? Because, getting paid to fvck my girlfriend doesn't seem too bad.

Thoughts???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You should be proud now - they think you're just as good as other couples, hot enough for a porno. It's your big shot.
 

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What the hell are you asking us for? It's totally up to you and whether or not you want other people to be able to pay to watch you and your girlfriend have sex.
 

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Not if you plan on running for office some day...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah then your GF would be considered a h0e... every customer would look at her as a h0e too...she might even get some perverted stalkers after her too...think about it dude...how many sick perverts are out there? Knowing that your girl is in a porn, especially one that she promotes herself at the store..they might get obsessed and kidnap her from the porn store when its slow (since they know where she works) and rape her or something!...Heave my words and be warned!!


...but if you're going to do it anyway, send me a copy. - Ken
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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There is good sides to it and bad sides. Ken758 hit the nail on the head with one of the things I was worried about....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Think about it dude...if say Jenna Haze or Briana Banks or somebody worked in a porn shop and you're at the register with her while shes ringing you up smiling at you...you couldn't tell me the thought about fvcking her brains out right then and there doesn't cross your mind every time you see her at the store...and thats just how normal people think...now imagine that way of thinking with some sick sadistic pervert-rapist...
 

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HolyG said:
Not if you plan on running for office some day...
didn't a porn star named Mary Carey run for California governor?...although it was an obvious publicity stunt..it was pretty funny..she said that if she was elected, she would put cameras in the 'oral' office to let people see what ReALLy goes on...LOL She actually got like 230 votes or something like that.. :crackup:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJDamage said:
I wonder how she got the job to begin with....
The add said they needed a cashier. And my girl use to be a cashier at safeway for a year. Also, I've meet all the people who work their. Its all girls and one young guy who is emo/gothic. They also, all are in relationships so, I'm not worried about the people she works with.

As for Ken785, You mentioned somethings that I'd worry about. Such as who knows what weirdos come into that store. But, my city isn't that big and is pretty conservative. Most all the crime that happens in my town is drug related.

So, I'll just decide whether it would be worth it not...
 

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do it!!!
.....and send me a copy :D
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
The add said they needed a cashier. And my girl use to be a cashier at safeway for a year. Also, I've meet all the people who work their. Its all girls and one young guy who is emo/gothic. They also, all are in relationships so, I'm not worried about the people she works with.

As for Ken785, You mentioned somethings that I'd worry about. Such as who knows what weirdos come into that store. But, my city isn't that big and is pretty conservative. Most all the crime that happens in my town is drug related.

So, I'll just decide whether it would be worth it not...
so why would she make a porn to help out the store? shes not the owner...is she getting most of the profits?...
 

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Ken785 said:
so why would she make a porn to help out the store? shes not the owner...is she getting most of the profits?...
Good question. I never thought where the money would go. I know we would get our cut... But, I guess it depends how much each copy of a movie would sell for. Then, would have to split it 3 ways. Bewteen; me, my girlfriend, and the store. We are both unsure if we want to do it. But, if most the profits are going to the store... Then, it wouldnt be worth having a bunch of guys whack off to me and my girl having sex for a few mesley dollars. I'll have to go and talk to the people that work there and see whats up.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Good question. I never thought where the money would go. I know we would get our cut... But, I guess it depends how much each copy of a movie would sell for. Then, would have to split it 3 ways. Bewteen; me, my girlfriend, and the store. We are both unsure if we want to do it. But, if most the profits are going to the store... Then, it wouldnt be worth having a bunch of guys whack off to me and my girl having sex for a few mesley dollars. I'll have to go and talk to the people that work there and see whats up.
i know...why help out the store AND give them most of the profits when you don't own it...tell them to ask the other 2 girls and the goth dude to make a 3-way porn together...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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