"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I have a problem with gettin girls interested in me.... mostly i think because i cant get them to laugh. I think I have a good sense of humor, but cant seem to get into those light, fun conversations with them. Another thing is i have a really funny friend, so even if i do crack a good joke, he kinda overshadows me. Girls wont get with a borin guy, and i think thats how im interpreted. What should i do?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sexy_kuta

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PRACTICE!!

try to make ur friends laugh but dont over do it
... and stay calm while ur at it

try adding a lil flirting in it too when u do it with girls
 

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That's the main thing about comedy. You can't laugh yourself, because then it seems as you're trying to be funny, which isn't funny. As with all aspects of dating, if it seems you're trying to be something you're not, then it won't work.
I used to be funny as hell, then I moved, and lost my edge because of a summer of isolation.
But I am getting it back, through practice.
Just work on it, but don't lose yourself.
 

crossboss

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Look up ****y & Funny

DJ Bible explains on how to be funny. Look it up there.
 

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Start living a fun lifestyle

Start living a fun lifestyle. Ask yourself man, am I have fun with my life? Am I living an inspired life and doing the things I love? Am I hanging out with positive and cool people? If your living the life, you shouldn't have any problems being funny, it's all natural.

You don't want to a clown either, a clown tries to be funny to get people's approval. The cool guy is just letting it flow, he's relax and can get into serious conversations and at the same time, crack some jokes once in a while.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re: Start living a fun lifestyle

Originally posted by Roly
You don't want to a clown either, a clown tries to be funny to get people's approval. The cool guy is just letting it flow, he's relax and can get into serious conversations and at the same time, crack some jokes once in a while.

I know this one guy who is the coolest person I've ever met and whom everybody talks about... well, he's a total clown, but he has this aura, like he's not doing it to get people's approval. That is good, if you have a clownish personality, since you should really not change yourself.
 

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Being "funny" comes naturally. It's not necessarily something that you can learn...that is, you can't be original if you have to "learn" to be funny.
 

The Master Disaster

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There is a difference between:

Good Sense of Humor and Funny

Good Sense of Humor: Being able to laugh at everything and get jokes.

Funny: Creating jokes that everyone likes.

Which one are you?
 

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i try to entertain myself primarily

saying stuff to get reactions usually gets laughs

observing things... even if i dont say it out loud sometimes i'll laugh at my random thoughts



being funny is like 70% timing and 30% delivery
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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