"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have a problem with gettin girls interested in me.... mostly i think because i cant get them to laugh. I think I have a good sense of humor, but cant seem to get into those light, fun conversations with them. Another thing is i have a really funny friend, so even if i do crack a good joke, he kinda overshadows me. Girls wont get with a borin guy, and i think thats how im interpreted. What should i do?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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sexy_kuta

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PRACTICE!!

try to make ur friends laugh but dont over do it
... and stay calm while ur at it

try adding a lil flirting in it too when u do it with girls
 

08aisaac

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That's the main thing about comedy. You can't laugh yourself, because then it seems as you're trying to be funny, which isn't funny. As with all aspects of dating, if it seems you're trying to be something you're not, then it won't work.
I used to be funny as hell, then I moved, and lost my edge because of a summer of isolation.
But I am getting it back, through practice.
Just work on it, but don't lose yourself.
 

crossboss

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Look up ****y & Funny

DJ Bible explains on how to be funny. Look it up there.
 

Roly

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Start living a fun lifestyle

Start living a fun lifestyle. Ask yourself man, am I have fun with my life? Am I living an inspired life and doing the things I love? Am I hanging out with positive and cool people? If your living the life, you shouldn't have any problems being funny, it's all natural.

You don't want to a clown either, a clown tries to be funny to get people's approval. The cool guy is just letting it flow, he's relax and can get into serious conversations and at the same time, crack some jokes once in a while.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Adone

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Re: Start living a fun lifestyle

Originally posted by Roly
You don't want to a clown either, a clown tries to be funny to get people's approval. The cool guy is just letting it flow, he's relax and can get into serious conversations and at the same time, crack some jokes once in a while.

I know this one guy who is the coolest person I've ever met and whom everybody talks about... well, he's a total clown, but he has this aura, like he's not doing it to get people's approval. That is good, if you have a clownish personality, since you should really not change yourself.
 

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Being "funny" comes naturally. It's not necessarily something that you can learn...that is, you can't be original if you have to "learn" to be funny.
 

The Master Disaster

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There is a difference between:

Good Sense of Humor and Funny

Good Sense of Humor: Being able to laugh at everything and get jokes.

Funny: Creating jokes that everyone likes.

Which one are you?
 

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i try to entertain myself primarily

saying stuff to get reactions usually gets laughs

observing things... even if i dont say it out loud sometimes i'll laugh at my random thoughts



being funny is like 70% timing and 30% delivery
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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