"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FortunateSon

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There's this girl at work and she always smiles at me as we cross paths, we do so several times a day and she always smiles at me when she walks past.

I've tried striking up some small talk with her, but she blushed, apologised for doing so saying she had a lack of sleep, conversed and then said bye before continuing about her day.

I assume she is just an outgoing, friendly person who isn't interested but a work mate of mine thinks she is. So who is more likely right?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You just have to make a move to confirm one or the other. I'd invite her to a coffee break. If she meets up for coffee then cool. If she declines or flakes a bit later then you have your answer.
 
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FortunateSon said:
There's this girl at work and she always smiles at me as we cross paths, we do so several times a day and she always smiles at me when she walks past.

I've tried striking up some small talk with her, but she blushed, apologised for doing so saying she had a lack of sleep, conversed and then said bye before continuing about her day.

I assume she is just an outgoing, friendly person who isn't interested but a work mate of mine thinks she is. So who is more likely right?
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NEVER EVER date someone from work!

However make her a friend and get all of HER girlfriends.
 
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