“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Being friendly or interested?

FortunateSon

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There's this girl at work and she always smiles at me as we cross paths, we do so several times a day and she always smiles at me when she walks past.

I've tried striking up some small talk with her, but she blushed, apologised for doing so saying she had a lack of sleep, conversed and then said bye before continuing about her day.

I assume she is just an outgoing, friendly person who isn't interested but a work mate of mine thinks she is. So who is more likely right?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You just have to make a move to confirm one or the other. I'd invite her to a coffee break. If she meets up for coffee then cool. If she declines or flakes a bit later then you have your answer.
 
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FortunateSon said:
There's this girl at work and she always smiles at me as we cross paths, we do so several times a day and she always smiles at me when she walks past.

I've tried striking up some small talk with her, but she blushed, apologised for doing so saying she had a lack of sleep, conversed and then said bye before continuing about her day.

I assume she is just an outgoing, friendly person who isn't interested but a work mate of mine thinks she is. So who is more likely right?
NEVER EVER date someone from work!

However make her a friend and get all of HER girlfriends.
 
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