"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being Famous

everywomanshero

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I have made friends with a guy who looks nearly indentical to a famous person. Actually, the guy isn't even that famous, I'd be willing to bet 3x as many guys would recognize him than women and even the guys don't always have a clue.

As an experiment, I helped convience him he should start a myspace as a poser. The emails this guy is getting are freaking funny. Everyday the same several horny women leave him comments even though he won't return their emails. It's like some sort of competition for attention, as well as newbs. The women are getting pissed because he won't meet them as fast as they want, some are even trying to get him to commit to providing sex "sure, right, you won't really want to" kind of stuff. As I write this he is just returning home from shaggin a hottie who invited him over for sex while her husband is at work.

If anyone out there really has any doubt how many women out there are seeking validation from being shagged by even a Z-lister, let me tell you they are lining up with their panties in their hands. lol. It's been some funny sh1t, I'm hoping he will post some stories for you guys.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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everywomanshero said:
...If anyone out there really has any doubt how many women out there are seeking validation from being shagged by even a Z-lister, let me tell you they are lining up with their panties in their hands. lol. It's been some funny sh1t, I'm hoping he will post some stories for you guys.
Check out Neil Strauss' MySpace page. He has two 80's Z-listers helping him. One was just finalized his divorce so he's really running around buck wild.
 

ChrizZ

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That confirms my belief that power is all that counts in this life.
 

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What famous person is he posing as?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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