"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being Famous

everywomanshero

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I have made friends with a guy who looks nearly indentical to a famous person. Actually, the guy isn't even that famous, I'd be willing to bet 3x as many guys would recognize him than women and even the guys don't always have a clue.

As an experiment, I helped convience him he should start a myspace as a poser. The emails this guy is getting are freaking funny. Everyday the same several horny women leave him comments even though he won't return their emails. It's like some sort of competition for attention, as well as newbs. The women are getting pissed because he won't meet them as fast as they want, some are even trying to get him to commit to providing sex "sure, right, you won't really want to" kind of stuff. As I write this he is just returning home from shaggin a hottie who invited him over for sex while her husband is at work.

If anyone out there really has any doubt how many women out there are seeking validation from being shagged by even a Z-lister, let me tell you they are lining up with their panties in their hands. lol. It's been some funny sh1t, I'm hoping he will post some stories for you guys.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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everywomanshero said:
...If anyone out there really has any doubt how many women out there are seeking validation from being shagged by even a Z-lister, let me tell you they are lining up with their panties in their hands. lol. It's been some funny sh1t, I'm hoping he will post some stories for you guys.
Check out Neil Strauss' MySpace page. He has two 80's Z-listers helping him. One was just finalized his divorce so he's really running around buck wild.
 

ChrizZ

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That confirms my belief that power is all that counts in this life.
 

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What famous person is he posing as?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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