"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being direct or not

meihu

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Hi,

Well I'm a brother form another member here, I asked him for advice in this matter and tho I liked his advice he told me that I could always ask here also so here I am =P

The thing is that I've known this girl for 3 years or 4 maybe but haven't seen her in like 1 year since I just started high school 1 year ago, but I've had her on my hi5 for like 2 years now, but never really talked with her except 5 days ago when I watched her pics and found out she's steaming hot (she wasn't that hot before) so I decided to leave a comment but she barely gets on hi5 so my question is should I just message her and be like: "hey I would really like to get back in touch with you, and since none of us check hi5 that often what you say if we chat over mail, here's mine in case you want to add me" or just like go around it a bit through different messages and comments?

I know kinda of a weird and lame question but could really use some help here.
So what should I do?

Thanks in advance.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alkali

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I'd say do it in person if you can. Girls, you see, are prone to first impressions.

A ballsy, personal introduction is a sure thing for success.
 

meihu

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Alkali said:
I'd say do it in person if you can. Girls, you see, are prone to first impressions.

A ballsy, personal introduction is a sure thing for success.
I know I would love to do it in person, since I've been doing some of the DJ boot camp so it helps me practice and also let's me put what I've learned in practice.
But the thing is that other then hi5 I have no way to get in touch with her =S
 
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