"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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meihu

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Hi,

Well I'm a brother form another member here, I asked him for advice in this matter and tho I liked his advice he told me that I could always ask here also so here I am =P

The thing is that I've known this girl for 3 years or 4 maybe but haven't seen her in like 1 year since I just started high school 1 year ago, but I've had her on my hi5 for like 2 years now, but never really talked with her except 5 days ago when I watched her pics and found out she's steaming hot (she wasn't that hot before) so I decided to leave a comment but she barely gets on hi5 so my question is should I just message her and be like: "hey I would really like to get back in touch with you, and since none of us check hi5 that often what you say if we chat over mail, here's mine in case you want to add me" or just like go around it a bit through different messages and comments?

I know kinda of a weird and lame question but could really use some help here.
So what should I do?

Thanks in advance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alkali

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I'd say do it in person if you can. Girls, you see, are prone to first impressions.

A ballsy, personal introduction is a sure thing for success.
 

meihu

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Alkali said:
I'd say do it in person if you can. Girls, you see, are prone to first impressions.

A ballsy, personal introduction is a sure thing for success.
I know I would love to do it in person, since I've been doing some of the DJ boot camp so it helps me practice and also let's me put what I've learned in practice.
But the thing is that other then hi5 I have no way to get in touch with her =S
 
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