"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hi,

Well I'm a brother form another member here, I asked him for advice in this matter and tho I liked his advice he told me that I could always ask here also so here I am =P

The thing is that I've known this girl for 3 years or 4 maybe but haven't seen her in like 1 year since I just started high school 1 year ago, but I've had her on my hi5 for like 2 years now, but never really talked with her except 5 days ago when I watched her pics and found out she's steaming hot (she wasn't that hot before) so I decided to leave a comment but she barely gets on hi5 so my question is should I just message her and be like: "hey I would really like to get back in touch with you, and since none of us check hi5 that often what you say if we chat over mail, here's mine in case you want to add me" or just like go around it a bit through different messages and comments?

I know kinda of a weird and lame question but could really use some help here.
So what should I do?

Thanks in advance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'd say do it in person if you can. Girls, you see, are prone to first impressions.

A ballsy, personal introduction is a sure thing for success.
 
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Alkali said:
I'd say do it in person if you can. Girls, you see, are prone to first impressions.

A ballsy, personal introduction is a sure thing for success.
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I know I would love to do it in person, since I've been doing some of the DJ boot camp so it helps me practice and also let's me put what I've learned in practice.
But the thing is that other then hi5 I have no way to get in touch with her =S
 
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