There seems to be a problem that I cant grasp. I could be walking down street, in the mall, there will be a girl (always with a gf or bf) walking past me and she'll say weird. She will look at me and say it. I'm clean cut, attractive, i'm wearing clean clothes from banana republic/jcrew. I dont understand it. Do they want me to react, and get in a fight with their bf? If i pinpoint it it's usually because I dont acknowledge that they're walking past me. Simply because I dont see them attractive enough for me to lose my focus. Whenever I see a girl I deem attractive, I look, keep walking and I dont get called weird. I can go to bars, talk to girls, and get laid. If I was truly weird I wouldnt be getting any love from girls.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Being called weird wailking down the street minding my own business
- Thread starter jaydilla
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
logicallefty
Moderator
I would be aloof and pretend like I didn't hear a thing. You know you aren't weird, right? So why does it matter what they think? Maybe these girls find you attractive and think it's weird that you are walking alone and not with a GF? Or maybe you look like someone they knew years ago? Or maybe you have a piece of TP hanging out of your pants or a kick me sign on your back? Could me any number of things.. So long as it's nothing like the TP or kick me sign I wouldn't worry about it.
Damn, yeah mostly these girls are in their early 20's.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
You didn't pay attention to THEM, the entitled little princesses thought you should, and made sure you did.....Not the best pickup line I've ever heard from a woman though
Lol. There asking to get hate fcked ha
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tictac
Banned
Based on your posts, they may be onto something.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
More here than meets the eye....