There seems to be a problem that I cant grasp. I could be walking down street, in the mall, there will be a girl (always with a gf or bf) walking past me and she'll say weird. She will look at me and say it. I'm clean cut, attractive, i'm wearing clean clothes from banana republic/jcrew. I dont understand it. Do they want me to react, and get in a fight with their bf? If i pinpoint it it's usually because I dont acknowledge that they're walking past me. Simply because I dont see them attractive enough for me to lose my focus. Whenever I see a girl I deem attractive, I look, keep walking and I dont get called weird. I can go to bars, talk to girls, and get laid. If I was truly weird I wouldnt be getting any love from girls.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Being called weird wailking down the street minding my own business
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
logicallefty
Moderator
I would be aloof and pretend like I didn't hear a thing. You know you aren't weird, right? So why does it matter what they think? Maybe these girls find you attractive and think it's weird that you are walking alone and not with a GF? Or maybe you look like someone they knew years ago? Or maybe you have a piece of TP hanging out of your pants or a kick me sign on your back? Could me any number of things.. So long as it's nothing like the TP or kick me sign I wouldn't worry about it.
Damn, yeah mostly these girls are in their early 20's.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
You didn't pay attention to THEM, the entitled little princesses thought you should, and made sure you did.....Not the best pickup line I've ever heard from a woman though
Lol. There asking to get hate fcked ha
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Tictac
Banned
Based on your posts, they may be onto something.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
More here than meets the eye....