There seems to be a problem that I cant grasp. I could be walking down street, in the mall, there will be a girl (always with a gf or bf) walking past me and she'll say weird. She will look at me and say it. I'm clean cut, attractive, i'm wearing clean clothes from banana republic/jcrew. I dont understand it. Do they want me to react, and get in a fight with their bf? If i pinpoint it it's usually because I dont acknowledge that they're walking past me. Simply because I dont see them attractive enough for me to lose my focus. Whenever I see a girl I deem attractive, I look, keep walking and I dont get called weird. I can go to bars, talk to girls, and get laid. If I was truly weird I wouldnt be getting any love from girls.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Being called weird wailking down the street minding my own business
- Thread starter jaydilla
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
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logicallefty
Moderator
I would be aloof and pretend like I didn't hear a thing. You know you aren't weird, right? So why does it matter what they think? Maybe these girls find you attractive and think it's weird that you are walking alone and not with a GF? Or maybe you look like someone they knew years ago? Or maybe you have a piece of TP hanging out of your pants or a kick me sign on your back? Could me any number of things.. So long as it's nothing like the TP or kick me sign I wouldn't worry about it.
Damn, yeah mostly these girls are in their early 20's.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
You didn't pay attention to THEM, the entitled little princesses thought you should, and made sure you did.....Not the best pickup line I've ever heard from a woman though
Lol. There asking to get hate fcked ha
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tictac
Banned
Based on your posts, they may be onto something.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
More here than meets the eye....