"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Being called a gigolo

NeedToImprove

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Not directed to me, it happened to a friend of mine in one of our classes at university, the teacher said you look like a gigolo, and he and everyone in class became surprised, he is what i would call a metrosexual, not gay by any means, even though i dont like that word.

He works out, he does artificial tanning, shaves his chest, you know that kind of stuff, dresses ok you know black long sleeve shirts like this one (http://www.comparestoreprices.co.uk/images/bu/burton-classic-black-long-sleeve-smart-shirt.jpg, blazers, tight v-neck tshirts,etc.

Just wondering if when a woman calls you that is she trying to tease you, or just being a b***c.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A girl I messed around with before has re-named me 'player' to be a b****.
Not many people say 'gigolo' around here but I think its the same- they're saying they WOULD be interested, if you didnt get around as much.

It winds me up because of how many people see me as 'one night stand material only' because im a sexaholic and they doubt they could trust me in a LTR. or even just an R. :|

Thats come straight from a girl I had one-i-tis for for a long time :( Damn being a player can be a pain in the ass when you meet someone you like :L
 

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its nothing bad. It gives you a reputation. Any reputation is better than no reputation when you're dealing with women.
 
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