"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being called a gigolo

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Not directed to me, it happened to a friend of mine in one of our classes at university, the teacher said you look like a gigolo, and he and everyone in class became surprised, he is what i would call a metrosexual, not gay by any means, even though i dont like that word.

He works out, he does artificial tanning, shaves his chest, you know that kind of stuff, dresses ok you know black long sleeve shirts like this one (http://www.comparestoreprices.co.uk/images/bu/burton-classic-black-long-sleeve-smart-shirt.jpg, blazers, tight v-neck tshirts,etc.

Just wondering if when a woman calls you that is she trying to tease you, or just being a b***c.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A girl I messed around with before has re-named me 'player' to be a b****.
Not many people say 'gigolo' around here but I think its the same- they're saying they WOULD be interested, if you didnt get around as much.

It winds me up because of how many people see me as 'one night stand material only' because im a sexaholic and they doubt they could trust me in a LTR. or even just an R. :|

Thats come straight from a girl I had one-i-tis for for a long time :( Damn being a player can be a pain in the ass when you meet someone you like :L
 
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its nothing bad. It gives you a reputation. Any reputation is better than no reputation when you're dealing with women.
 
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